Right now the teaching team is putting together the Summer teaching schedule. One of the themes we are considering is what we would call “The Summer of Love.” The idea is that we would spend a substantial portion of the Summer studying what the Bible teaches about love.
One of the interesting books I have been reading on this topic is Don Carson’s book, “The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God.” You might find that a provocative title - I know I did. The reason for the title becomes apparent when you look at the chapter titles; 1. On Distorting the Love of God; 2. God Is Love; 3. God’s Love and God’s Sovereignty; and 4. God’s Love and God’s Wrath. Here is a quote from the opening pages of the book – “If people believe in God at all today, the overwhelming majority hold that this God – however he, she, or it may be understood – is a loving being. But that is what makes the task of Christian witness so daunting. For this widely disseminated belief in the love of God is set with increasing frequency in some other matrix than biblical theology.”
Here is the main question we might ask ourselves about our own understanding of the love of God:
- Does my understanding of God’s love for me allow for suffering?
For many of us, me included too much of the time, we feel God’s love when things are going well, and we wonder what has happened when things begin to turn toward pain.
One place we might find help in our understanding of this conundrum is by lookinig at Paul and Jesus to see how they understood the love of God when they were under the duress of extreme difficulty.
Jesus clearly had an abiding trust in the Father. And when He was going through the agony of Gethsemane and Golgotha, He cried out three times with a request that the cup might pass from Him, and one time with a question of why He had been forsaken. Can we learn from His reaction that it is quite to be expected that we too would cry out for our suffering to be taken away, with the caveat; “But not my will but your will be done”? But as it relates to His other cry, can we not say that we will never have to cry, “Why have you forsaken me?” because we will never be forsaken since Jesus was forsaken for us.
As for Paul, his understanding of the love and sovereignty of God allowed him to see shipwrecks, beatings and imprisonments as part of the plan of God for his welfare and for the furtherance of the Gospel cause. But he too asked that his pain be taken away. Do you, like me, find it interesting that his was a thrice repeated request as well? Here is the text of 2 Cor. 12 – “To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations, there was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”
Paul reacted like Jesus did – “Please take this away. But if you choose not to, your will be done.” And in Paul’s case, since he learned that God had the purpose of making His strength perfect through Paul’s weakness, he said – “Bring it on!”
Can you and I learn to embrace suffering and pain like this? If we don’t, we are in danger of not knowing how to understand “the difficult doctrine of the love of God.”